The People Holding Up the Stones
King Harald’s words and Do Ho Suh’s public art open a question about people, power, and the work of widening the meaning of “us.”
Read the essay ↗Light, darkness, and the ways people make a life in Arctic Norway.
Explore the proposal ↓I’m a Unitarian Universalist Humanist minister and writer. For more than thirty years, I’ve accompanied people through grief, uncertainty, identity, and change. I’m interested in the practices that help us make a life when we cannot yet see what comes next.
For Seasons of Meaning, I propose to live in Tromsø through one complete Arctic year, learning how people make meaning, sustain community, and adapt to the changing light. I will first seek to understand those practical adaptations in their own setting, then explore what they might offer people navigating grief, uncertainty, and returning possibility.
What can we offer one another while living through a season we cannot hurry?
During a two-day visit to Tromsø in 2023, I joined a whale-watching expedition. Reaching the waters where the whales had gathered took about three hours. During that long journey, our guide described some of the ways people adapt to Arctic darkness, including leaving lights glowing in their homes so that those walking outside encounter warmth and human presence. I carried that image home. It gave me a question to investigate, rather than a conclusion about how everyone in Tromsø lives.
The visit was also a return to my ancestral country. Meeting members of my Norwegian family opened further questions about ancestry, language, belonging, place, and identity.
How do anticipation and preparation shape a community’s relationship to seasonal change? I hope to attend to the practices people carry into the darkening days.
What forms of companionship, ritual, and mutual care sustain everyday life when the sun does not rise? This is a question for listening, rather than an assumption that darkness means deprivation.
How is the return of light anticipated, marked, and shared? I hope to explore personal practices and public rituals that give seasonal transition its meaning.
How does abundant light change the rhythms of everyday life? A full year allows me to consider this season in relationship to the darkness that precedes it.
These are guiding questions for the proposed inquiry, not research findings.
The project would bring contemporary secular and Humanist life into conversation with Christian, spiritual, and other local perspectives. My approach combines scholarly reading, reflective field writing, observation of public and community life, and voluntary conversations conducted with appropriate ethical guidance. I hope to learn how people arrange rest, gathering, outdoor activity, and mutual care across the seasons. Their experiences will guide the connections I draw, rather than serve as illustrations for ideas I have already decided upon.
One carefully guided strand would consider the diversity of contemporary Sámi relationships to religion, spirituality, land, identity, and secular life. I would undertake this as an outside learner in consultation with Sámi scholars and participants, with attention to the limits of imposing Western categories on Indigenous experience.
The essays will explore how practical seasonal adaptations can deepen our language and practices for living through change. Darkness may offer rest, shelter, or intimacy; returning or abundant light may bring demands as well as joy. Seasonal life and grief are different experiences, and those distinctions will remain part of the work.
I’m seeking an appropriate visiting-scholar home at UiT, with scholarly guidance and opportunities to participate in seminars and research networks. I would be glad to discuss an English-language workshop or public program on memoir, ritual, grief, or writing through transition.
Resources for other communities will acknowledge their sources and limits. They will not reproduce sacred or culturally specific practices as transferable exercises. The project is in development. Funding and a university affiliation have not yet been secured. I am seeking outside funding rather than financial support from UiT.
Download the one-page project concept ↗I’m a Unitarian Universalist Humanist minister and writer based in Lawrence, Kansas. For more than thirty years, I’ve accompanied people and communities through grief, uncertainty, identity, and change. My work centers on how we make meaning, sustain belonging, and care for one another when we cannot yet see what comes next.
During a brief visit to Tromsø in 2023, I joined a whale-watching expedition. On the three-hour journey to the whale-feeding grounds, our guide described adaptations to Arctic darkness, including leaving lights glowing in homes so that people outside encounter warmth and human presence.
I carried that story home. It left me wondering: What can we offer one another while living through a season we cannot hurry?
That question is at the heart of Seasons of Meaning: Light, Darkness, and the Ways People Make a Life in Arctic Norway. I’m developing a proposal to spend August 2027 through July 2028 in Tromsø, learning how people adapt to diminishing light, polar night, returning sun, and midnight sun.
I hope to understand those practical adaptations in their own settings, then explore what they might illuminate about grief, change, and emerging possibility. I’m interested, too, in experiences that challenge familiar metaphors: darkness as rest or intimacy, light as demanding as well as joyful.
Norway is also my ancestral country. Meeting members of my Norwegian family during that visit opened further questions about language, inheritance, place, and belonging.
I hold a Doctor of Ministry from Episcopal Divinity School, a Master of Divinity from Iliff School of Theology, and a Bachelor of Social Work from California State University, Long Beach. My ministry has included congregational leadership, Humanist chaplaincy, interfaith dialogue, and public writing.
Through essays, conversation, and reflection, I hope to explore what sustains us through the seasons of our lives—and how we become companions to one another along the way.
I invite you to explore the project and selected writing here. If something sparks a question or a possibility for collaboration, I’d be glad to hear from you.
Get in touch ↗Lawrence, Kansas · 2024–present
Previous leadership experience encompassing platform talks, teaching, pastoral care, spiritual direction, programming, and social justice work. This work also included Humanist chaplaincy at Columbia and NYU and board service at Ethical Culture Fieldston School.
Colorado Springs, Colorado · August 2008–June 2021
Colorado Springs, Colorado · 2006–2008. A center for people of all faiths to work for justice, offering training on addressing public issues from a faith perspective.
Pikes Peak MCC · 1994–2006; MCC in Long Beach · 1989–1994.
Ordained in Metropolitan Community Churches in 1989. Unitarian Universalist Association Affirmation of Call in 2010. A full CV is being updated.
My writing explores the ways experience becomes meaning: how we carry loss, how place changes us, and how we make room for one another. These two selections bring public life and personal pilgrimage into conversation.
King Harald’s words and Do Ho Suh’s public art open a question about people, power, and the work of widening the meaning of “us.”
Read the essay ↗After days of heat and weary walking, a cool church and a pilgrim’s ritual become a place to reflect on hospitality, shared humanity, and belonging across belief.
Read the selection ↗A transformational memoir exploring presence, uncertainty, and the courage to choose a next step. Personal stories open into reflection, practice, and ritual.
My ministry has included public advocacy, interfaith collaboration, and work for LGBTQ equality, reproductive freedom, and the dignity of people seeking sanctuary. These selected links offer a window into that work.
A public address at the March for Reproductive Rights and Abortion Justice in New York City, connecting Humanist commitments with bodily autonomy and collective action.
Watch or read the speech ↗Opening remarks welcoming a Guttmacher Institute event at the New York Society for Ethical Culture on evidence, reproductive rights, and public action.
Watch the event ↗My contribution, “All Souls Unitarian/Universalist Church: Why We Became a Sanctuary Church,” appears in Michael C. LeMay’s Homeland Security: A Reference Handbook (ABC-CLIO).
View the book and contents ↗A Minister in Motion column on hospitality, immigration, and the ethical responsibility to recognize our neighbors’ humanity.
Read the column ↗Written testimony to the Kansas Senate Public Health and Welfare Committee, representing Kansas Interfaith Action in opposition to SB 522.
Read the testimony (PDF) ↗A historical biography from the LGBTQ Religious Archives Network documenting earlier ministry, community leadership, and LGBTQ advocacy. This archival profile reflects an earlier stage of my career.
Read the archival profile ↗These links open material hosted by the original publishers and organizations. Some publications may require a subscription.
I welcome conversations with prospective hosts, faculty advisers, and collaborators whose work intersects with Arctic humanities, ritual, community, and seasonal life.
Rev. Dr. Nori J. Rost · Lawrence, Kansas, USA
Proposed Tromsø stay: August 2027–July 2028